CHAPTER THREE

Single But Not Alone

Getting married doesn't do anything to eliminate being alone and does not guarantee a fulfilled life.  Fulfillment is based on your relationship with Jesus Christ.  Your happiness has more to do with obedience to the Will of God than anything else.  If you can manage your happiness as a single, you can manage your happiness in a marriage.  How many of you know those who are married but are still alone?  God didn't intend for Adam to stop being single, that is unique, whole and set apart.  He just didn't want him to be alone anymore.  But let us remember that even Adam had a stretch of time when he was completely by himself  and alone with God.  

If I looked at myself through Heaven's eyes, would I be blessed by what I saw? Would I find myself living my life according to the Master's Call?

If I looked at myself through Heaven's eyes, what would I see?  Would I see the mighty reflection of God looking back at me?

 Excerpt from Chapter 2 "Through Heaven's Eyes"                  KRP

 TESTIMONIALS

I wanted to tell you how much your book blessed my soul, it actually brought a peace to me ...each chapter just confirmed some things in me and it was so refreshing and freeing to me…seems there should be another book.  Your book just brought together my thoughts and some of the things I have come to know and it actually gave me hope in my time now of preparation and waiting. I stayed so long in my second marriage because I just didn't want to be alone, I didn't want to admit I had messed up (again). I do deserve to be loved, respected and treated right. I do deserve a man that truly loves God and me and I know he exists somewhere out there. I have come to the conclusion that if I don't let God do this thing, I won't experience God's goodness.

                                                               Iris Shields

 CHAPTER EIGHT

God Does Love You

The enemy would love for us to confuse bearing the cross of our life's decisions with the degree to which God loves us.  Your past mistakes, your blunders, your bad decisions, your bad choices are all under the blood of Jesus.  Change your focus from your problems to God's love and His promises.  Stop looking for someone else to blame and instead look for what God can do.  Seek real love through the love of God and then feel his love through the love of man.  If you love differently, you will date differently; if you date differently, you will marry differently because "You Marry What You Date".